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[Couple data] □ Husband: A company employee / 40s □ Encounter: Introduction of a friend □ Enrollment: October 2020 □ Children: 1 (Born in November 2020) Marriage and happy every day!What is the relationship with a husband who can keep challenging a career -oriented wife?

I'm not sure about giving birth, but I'm lost in remarriage

Shizu said, "In fact, my husband is the second marriage."She said she thought about marriage from her first marriage experience, but she is now glad she got married.There was the reality of Japan today."At that time, my friend invited me to travel to my wounds. I got acquainted with my husband in Okinawa on my travels. I was a friend of a friend. I felt a little fate (laughs)."

It is often said that "healing the wounds of broken heart is a new love." After that, he developed into a relationship, but remarriage was still unthinkable. After all, love and marriage are different. "I got married for the first time because I knew the other person, but I didn't know ... I couldn't accept that the other person would change after marriage. People change better or worse. I guess, I guess she wasn't identified the essence. " "By the age of 35, I wanted a child, so I was happy and I was not hesitant to give birth. At first I thought that I could grow up and get married with my husband. When I lived, I did housework almost half and half, and above all, I didn't have any of the hostess I hated. In Japan, I have a hard time getting a mother and child handbook in Japan. In fact, it's still inconvenient. There are many things, so I wondered if I could deepen my bond with this person, so I decided to join just before giving birth. "

Confused by the Japanese hosts of the Kazakushi

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For Shizu, who grew up in China with his grandparents for nine years of childhood, he is often confused because he can not understand the owner of the host who has permeated Japan. "China has no concept of a full -time housewife. Men also do housework, it is natural to use housekeeping services and sitters, and women will return to work three months after giving birth." Housekeeping service that is increasing in Japan. Shizu also uses it once every two weeks for about 3 hours. You will need to choose a trusted person or a company, as housekeeping will be in your house. "I was introduced to the" Bears "that my friend used. I am asking mainly about cleaning that I am not good at, but I do anything, such as changing the bed sheets that are a little troublesome. My husband has been living abroad for about 10 years at work, so my sense is similar and accepts it without resistance. I am still small because my child is still small, but for housework. It is naturally half -half because it is more free to participate and do not decide on detailed rules, so it is naturally half and half. "In addition to the housekeeping service, it incorporates Bravaba (cleaning robot of floor wiping). In addition, there are many people's help, such as her husband's parents and Shizu's sister for childcare.